Should I have sex with my ex-boyfriend’s cousin?
When I came back he was dating another girl whom I became friends with quickly. They broke up and she is devastated. A month later he tells me he likes me and has for a while, but she still claims to love him. Angie Hi, I hope you see this and answer. He reached out to several members of the family in an attempt to get her back…she would not budge. I felt so bad for him and out of love for them both she is like a sister to me I did all that I could to help them get back together, having him send letters, flowers..
I’m crushing on my boyfriend’s cousin!!!
I am a girl of 17 and I have a cousin of the same age. I am really close to her but she has no idea I have been seeing her ex-boyfriend. The thing is he kind of left her for me, although he says he had no deep feelings for her, nor she for him.
In my situation, I feel that what it boiled down to was that the relationship he and I were trying to build wasn’t as great a risk to lose than the relationship with his cousin. My little story: I’m in my 30s, ex bf in his 40s and his cousin is close in age to him.
If your ex-boyfriend had a close group of friends, then you probably had the opportunity to meet them and foster your own relationships with them during the course of your relationship with your ex-boyfriend. Women are more likely than men to foster relationships quickly and to have a difficult time ending these relationships. For many women the thought of ending her friendships with her ex-boyfriend’s friends can seem as depressing as the thought of the romantic relationship with her ex-boyfriend coming to an end.
As a result of these feelings, many women may find themselves becoming attracted to a friend of their ex-boyfriend after they break up. You may feel tempted to enter into a relationship with one of his friends immediately but before doing so you should consider the fact that your ex-boyfriend’s friendship with his friends is not likely to end because you start to date one of them. You should also consider the fact that your ex-boyfriend may have shared personal details about your relationship with his friends that could complicate your new relationship.
Your ex-boyfriend has likely had the same group of friends for years and it is important that the bond of their friendship will most likely not be compromised by the fact that you are dating one of his friends. For this reason you should be cognizant of the fact that if you are dating one of your ex-boyfriend’s friends, you are very likely to see your ex-boyfriend often. For men, spending time with their male friends is one of their favorite pastimes and this is unlikely to change just because you are dating one of them and are an ex-girlfriend to another one.
While women may refuse to accept a man who has hurt one of their friends into their circle of friends, men are much more forgiving in that aspect. They are doubtful to care or even notice that this is a situation that could make someone uncomfortable. For this reason, you should consider your own feelings and whether or not you think you could be comfortable in a group of friends that includes your ex-boyfriends.
I’m crushing on my boyfriend’s cousin!!!
June 6th Re: My cousin’s ex boyfriend?! It seems like your cousin is a bit jealous and does not know how to cope with that jealousy that she’s experiencing right now.
Do you think its weird to date your cousin’s cousin. I think I still like my ex, and am I right to HATE my cousin for now dating my ex? My ex-girlfriend cheated with her male cousin. My boyfriends cousin has a crush on me? My best friend had sex with my cousin. Should I continue being friends with.
AmbassadorofAwesome69 Yep, I agree. Not that I would start “dating” her anyway but I think even something as simple as going to the movies, its like I just keep having this dog-gone scenario in my head, “OK, movies over, you look at each other. Plus, even though she has an outstanding personality, smart, funny, mature, independent, i.
I guess most of this is from my cousin hey, you know how guys are and you always find one guy that you trust with everything saying she did things like bend over his lap and lift her skirt up and say “I’ve been naughty – spank me” or, like I said before, that she enjoys it just a bit on the wild side in the bedroom. I guess, having “retired” from dating about eight months ago along with everything else that it just intrigues me. A little devil pops on my shoulder saying “If she offers, it will be OK just one time.
He never introduced her to the “family” as a girlfriend or even a “good friend”. They went out a couple of times then she just started popping over to his place. Sometimes they had sex, sometimes they didn’t. So, no big drama I think even if something did develop. Let’s call my cousin’s friend “Beyonce”.
I had sex with my ex boyfriends cousin?
She thinks she is entitled to do anything she wants, and she dose, boy howdy! She talks down to me as well and rude about it. I deal with enough problems due to the fact that I have social anxiety and depression everyday so everything I perceive is ten fold!
A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 August ): Yes! There is no problem with dating your ex’s cousin. I went threw the same agony, for 10 years I was madly in love with Danny, and he was married, so was I, so two years after I was divorced, and a few months after his wife left him, we started to date and the gossip was out of control, but 4 years later he and I have become a happy family.
Dear Wendy is a relationship advice blog. You can read about me here , peruse the archives here and read popular posts here. You can also follow along on Facebook and Instagram. He confessed to most after about a year, and I was accepting of him and all of this kinkery. Our relationship even started as solely BDSM, which is not my scene incidentally. I usually last only about five years in a relationship, but we have been pretty strong and were even trying to get pregnant for over a year.
I had found out about this in the past and broke up with him because this was a hard limit for me. But we got back together and, three years later, it has happened again. This time he admits that he had sex with her in the past but that that was years ago. We obviously do no share the same dictionary for either definition. This is all especially difficult because I am three months pregnant with his child.
Am I being too rigid? And, apparently, the cheating, lying, cross-dressing, bisexuality, BDSM, meeting men on the internet and in rest stops and video stores, and sexting with ex-girlfriends was all acceptable, too.
Im in love with my ex boyfriends cousin what do i do??
Hi Anonymous, Do you trust your cousin? If you are so sure she doesn’t care, then asking is a win win situation: You are kind to her and you verify whether it was actually only 2mo and 8y ago that they dated. I do think it is gross to be honest. But one must weight the risks and benefits. How good is this guy compared to any dream guys you’ve met?
I dated this guy for 2 and a half years. We broke up in the middle of Last month I made the mistake of hanging out with his cousin whom I have known for as long as I have known my ex.
So, I’ve got myself into a pretty serious situation that I need advice on. To be fully understood I need to give the history of the situation. Sorry if it’s long but much of it is important. I had been in a serious relationship from 5 years ago up until about a month ago. I’m 22 years old and had been with her since my senior year in high school. It started as a friendship and ended up developing into a relationship because that’s what she wanted. She showed a lot of interest and even though I wasn’t interested, I didn’t want to hurt her because I cared about her.
So I let myself fall into it. Being 17, I don’t think I was mature enough to know this was a bad choice. Things continued on over 5 years and became steadily more serious and with graduating college talks of marriage even began to arise. I went along with it assuming I could continue to be content.
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January 9, Would you date your ex’s cousin? I’ve recently broke up with my ex-boyfriend and started getting interested in his cousin V. V and I were friends before I went out with his cousin and apparently V was interested in me at that time but he didn’t make a move on me because I was getting along with his cousin.
But V ended up dating another girl. After I broke up with V’s cousin, V and I met up for coffee to talk about my breakup and his relationship problem with his girlfriend.
I HAVE been seeing the guy my cousin was last with and I feel so bad about it. I am a girl of 17 and I have a cousin of the same age. I am really close to.
We had a bad break up after he found out I was going to dump him. But to make matters worse not even 2 weeks after we broke up he started dating my best friend. So not only had my best friend dating my ex effected our relationship, but with all my other friends too Alyssa Perez I think a true friend should be respectful towards whatever they say about it. I myself went through this experience. Does karma really come back?? Rachele What I find utterly retarded is a friend who will pursue a physically, psychologically, and sexually abusive former boyfriend.
Your friend might get mad or something Cherise Hey everyone. Ok so I a guy best friend. School starts back up January sixth so what should I do to not make things ockward? I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. I have hooked up with one guy since then a rebound. Now, the new trimester started and they have a class. How should I feel about this? What should I do?